” He Likes Me, He Likes Me Not….
She Loves Me, She Loves Me Not…”
Sounds familiar? Remember those days when you pick a flower and you will say this words .. 🙂 Oh those childish things. Raise your hands if you did this! 🙂
Reminiscing this moments just make me smile and I just thank God because I know what true love is and that is JESUS. He demonstrated what true LOVE IS and it’s more than the flowers, or the roses.
Job 11:18 English Standard Version (ESV)
18 And you will feel secure, because there is hope;
you will look around and take your rest in security.
Now, that I am joyfully engaged to the man, whom God desires for me to have and to hold, I usually encounter this question from singles … and the question is … tuhduuuun…. ” Does he like me? Does she like me?” … This question is usually the topic among singles. Aside from career growth, family, or any personal plans … this question usually pops up. So how will we you know if he /she likes you? Or how will you know if he/she loves you?
The answer is … know God more. Know God for always. Why? because it is He who will be the One who will reveal that person whom He chose for you. Always ask yourself this… are you just feeding your own desires to have a ‘in a relationship’ change of status because almost all of your friends are on that season? We’ll if that’s your reason … think again and check your heart because NO ONE CAN FILL THE VOID THAT YOU HAVE IN YOUR HEART except JESUS.
Entering in a relationship is not always a walk in the park, or a bed of roses, or the butterflies in your stomach… Yes, we will have those moments but in life, it’s more than that. If God has not given you the ‘change status’ or the love of your life’ or your dream girl or dream boy’ at this very moment, know that God is preparing the best for you. And please, do not always focus on finding your love of your life — but focus on JESUS more and more. In every season and in every circumstances, focus on JESUS. These questions that you have in your mind and heart will sure be answered in His perfect timing. Nobody knows who will you end up with in the first place but what keeps us confident while waiting on God is the fact and the TRUTH that God holds our future. There’s nothing to worry about your love life. He will orchestrate things beyond your expectations. Just trust and obey Him, Not your emotions, or personal desire, but always ask God … “God. what’s Your plan for me? Help me to obey and surrender to Your will even if I don’t understand or even if Your plans is not what I like to hear or love to hear .. it’s not about my desires but Your desire for me.. ”
Jeremiah 17:9 ESV /
The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?
So for all you singles out there, just relax, believe and trust God always for your own unique love story written by God 🙂 Excited for you all!
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God bless everyone! Stay in love with God for always 🙂